We are what we say and do to say. We are what we say and do to tell us. Why words matter and language shapes us, all while also shape the world from language, reflection and product of existence. The aim of this work is to look a little more, realize how we use language and how we use and used by it. How to co-build the life and society as humanity through words, prayers, messages and speeches, as women and men. The relationship with language as gender does matter. Something you want to highlight is the wide range of possibilities that already has reformulated the tongue from a non-discriminatory and correct language, that is, there are several alternative remedies to choose or linguistic strategies to avoid androcentrism and sexism language