Being in tune with each other, know how to ask what we need, to express one's emotions, not to be a partner violent aggressive but know how to react in a convincing manner, winning all of these skills is not easy and not impossible. We can classify under the word "communicate." And learn to do it the right way, and above all effective, it is possible. The author begins in the art of communication by providing your toolbox, in which dialogue and care through words are essential and effective tools available to anyone who wants to understand the conflict and bring peace. In the couple, at work, in the battle with the world.