Love and pain in the couple deepens - of a didactic form - in the internal scenario complex in which the relationships of partners are operated. Starting from the idea of the human being as needed from affective ties for its development, it begins by analyzing the first relationships with the mother figure as a determinant of the structure of subsequent links. After a brief incursion in the influence of character (according to the vision of the Enneagram) both in maternal-subsidiaries and in those of a couple, it is going to take care of those that we can call the great themes of the relational universe: the infatuation, love, Intimacy, sexuality or loss. He always does it with a lovely and direct style but without sacrificing the rigor and depth of his approach.