When a disgrace, large or small occurs, the injured person expects first the help of his family, relatives. But precisely because it is so affected by what happened in turn, the nuclear family is often unable to provide the expected support. Hence, the condition of the difficulty faced by the group, some weakening of the links to join. How can the family, despite the dramas that sometimes stir, can provide an environment tutelary containment atmosphere, conducive to the development of individual resilience? How to get the quality of a family attachments help to protect each and every one of its members? And also, when and under what criteria, it is essential to consult a specialist and when to do all the household? What if the family was the place par excellence resilience? Trying to answer these questions involves reflecting the individual taking as their relationship with those around him. By definition, resilience is an inter-concept can only be born and grow in relationship with others. No ability to adapt to it or even imagine can be brought into play if there are no significant links with the environment, and the family thus represents a link basilar.